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Mother's Day

wirelessrita — Sun, 10 May 2009 20:50:48 GMT

Happy Mother's Day to all birthmothers. "Mother's Day" is always bittersweet. I love my mom, but I think about my own birthmother and try not to wonder if the

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erin heydorn — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 23:55:13 GMT

wow....reading this brought tears to my eyes....because i have felt so alone in my pain...but you said exactly how i feel. like it's a double edged sword. i'm

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R'el Rodriguez — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 20:38:55 GMT

One of the nurses right after I gave birth said to me, 'Don't should yourself and don't let anyone should on you.' I really liked that. No one can ever tell

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Serenity7911@... — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 07:41:58 GMT

Hi. First of all, your story makes perfect sense!!! Please just remember that all of us birth mothers experience similar feelings. Perhaps our circumstances

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Cathy Clayton — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 19:43:15 GMT

Sorry about the mistake regarding your age, Erin! Cathy : ) ... From: Megan M. Subject: Re: [BirthParentsUnited] ERIN

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Megan M. — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 19:29:12 GMT

I was 24 when I had my daughter (I am 28 now). I still beat myself over putting her up for adoption, I have a 13 month old son and i do not want her to think

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erin heydorn — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 17:26:14 GMT

Oh, I wasn't 16 when I had my daughter....I was 23. I guess that also makes me feel bad...I should have had myself more together. ... From: Cathy Clayton

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erin heydorn — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 17:24:05 GMT

I know what you mean, the fear of it just hurting more if you see him. It's like...I'd love nothing more to see her and hold her...but then having to leave

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Cathy Clayton — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 15:44:24 GMT

Erin, After reading your story, I cried. My heart goes out to you. Please don't think of yourself as a monster or being a bad person. I don't know if

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Cathy Clayton — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 15:18:22 GMT

Hi, Alexis, My husband and I would like to have a caring, loving relationship with the birth mom, and for her to have a relationship with her child, if

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Alexis Fewless — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 07:15:25 GMT

Cathy, Hey im a birth mother I found out when i was 15 i had my son at 16. He was born on May 21, 2008 hes noww 9mouths old. It killes me inside that i can be

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Alexis Fewless — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 07:11:28 GMT

Hey Erin, Im alexis i was 15 when i found out i was going to have a baby.I wasnt ready for a baby but i thought i was. I was 16 when i had him. And i thought

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erin heydorn — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 05:46:25 GMT

The story with my adoption experience isn't very long...and I think it might inspire you. So I found out I was pregnant last january. I wasn't thinking about

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Cathy Clayton — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 03:26:23 GMT

Dear Erin, I am glad that you are having some days wherein you're feeling better. And thank you for believing that I did not mean to offend you in any

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erin heydorn — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 02:49:03 GMT

I am very thankful to everyone for their support and words of encouragement. I have been doing my best to work through these feelings...somedays are better