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      <title>Geneen Roth on equanimity</title>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 12:01:27 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Sharon Werner</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3582</link>
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      <description>&quot;My mother has a name for the elaborate, wrongheaded tales we tell ourselves. She calls them Jack Stories. &quot;Here&#39;s the original: One day, Jack had a flat tire</description>
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      <title>4 Measureless States from Visuddhimagga</title>
      <pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 03:07:07 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>antony272b2</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3581</link>
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      <description>&quot;Lovingkindness (metta) is the way to purity for one who has much ill will, compassion (karuna) is the way to purity for one who has much cruelty, gladness</description>
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      <title>Godwin Samararatne on loving-kindness towards our shortcomings</title>
      <pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 13:42:59 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>shar_63</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3580</link>
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      <description>&quot;[An] aspect where we need to use loving-kindness is learning to relate to our shortcomings, our weaknesses. When we make a mistake, how do we relate to that</description>
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      <title>Re: Sutta On The Enemy</title>
      <pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 07:01:11 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>antony272b2</dc:creator>
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      <description>Sorry about that post. When someone is your enemy in metta practice, you don&#39;t call them up and tell them &quot;You are my enemy&quot; or go around telling other people</description>
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      <title>Sutta On The Enemy</title>
      <pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 05:06:04 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>antony272b2</dc:creator>
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      <description>Anguttara Nikaya 7.60 Kodhana Sutta: An Angry Person (extract) translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu &quot;These seven things ? pleasing to an enemy,</description>
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      <title>Re: Be Successful &amp; Happy!!! (Bhikkhu Samahita)</title>
      <pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 09:08:45 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>antony272b2</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3577</link>
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      <description>Sharon, Yes, I&#39;m thinking that people who don&#39;t help you breathe easier are creating the causes for their own stress and failure and are to be avoided and not</description>
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      <title>Re: Be Successful &amp; Happy!!! (Bhikkhu Samahita)</title>
      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 11:56:05 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>shar_63</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3576</link>
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      <description>Antony, I think you&#39;ve really hit on something.  Your comment makes me think of a meditation I used to do on a regular basis about the making the best use of</description>
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      <title>Be Successful &amp; Happy!!! (Bhikkhu Samahita)</title>
      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 10:35:56 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>antony272b2</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3575</link>
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      <description>&quot;How to Cure Anger &amp; Irritation ... !!! Friends: &lt;snip&gt; 3: Begin and Cultivate meditation on Infinite Friendliness: Sit down a silent &amp; empty place with closed</description>
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      <title>Jack Kornfield - spiritual development</title>
      <pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:00:06 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>shar_63</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3574</link>
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      <description>&quot;The purpose of spiritual life is not to create some special state of mind. A state of mind is always temporary. The purpose is to work directly with the most</description>
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      <title>Atta-rakkhita Sutta: Self-protected</title>
      <pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 03:10:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>antony272b2</dc:creator>
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      <description>Samyutta Nikaya 3.5 Atta-rakkhita Sutta: Self-protected translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu At Savatthi. As he was sitting to one side, King</description>
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      <title>Ven. Ayya Khema - lovingkindness</title>
      <pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 13:54:34 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>shar_63</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3572</link>
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      <description>&quot;[Regarding Metta,] friendliness doesn&#39;t mean dealing with others on a superficial level, saying yes all the time and telling others what they want to hear so</description>
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      <title>Compassion &amp; Success (non-Buddhist source)</title>
      <pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 03:45:58 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>antony272b2</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3571</link>
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      <description>&quot;To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.&quot; http://www.gurteen.com/gurteen/gurteen.nsf/id/X0022B066/ ~ often</description>
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      <title>4BV Essential Qualities For Listening to Others</title>
      <pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 02:57:38 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>antony272b2</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3570</link>
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      <description>&quot;The Four Divine Abidings (Narada, The Buddha and His Teachings, chapter 42) were said by the Buddha to be the only four emotions worth having, the rest being</description>
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      <title>Bhante Wimala on compassionate communication</title>
      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 12:03:25 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>Sharon Werner</dc:creator>
      <link>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Buddhaviharas/message/3569</link>
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      <description>&quot;We have all had the experience of receiving a hateful or a loving word. Words can separate nations and lead them into war, or they can bring them together and</description>
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      <title>Re: Gil Fronsdal on equanimity - OOPS!  Correction</title>
      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 11:40:31 GMT</pubDate>
      <dc:creator>shar_63</dc:creator>
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      <description>Here is the first paragraph of Gil Fronsdal&#39;s teaching on equanimity.  I accidentally cut off the first line when I posted the day before yesterday: </description>
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