http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/ Adults with controling parents Sun, 10 Jan 2010 04:36:12 GMT Suzie http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2283 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2283 Wow, Lara! This is how my parents reacted to everything, even going away to school, or moving in to my own place, or things I just said when I was little. I Sun, 10 Jan 2010 04:25:05 GMT johngirl4ever http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2282 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2282 Hi. I'm Lara (just under a new screenname because I couldn't remember my old one) and I thought I'd post an update since my last one was in 2007! Soooo much Fri, 01 Jan 2010 22:27:46 GMT Rhoda zzzzzz http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2281 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2281 That's so out of line. But Controlling Parents are all about themselves; they want their offspring to dance to their tune no matter what the cost. ... Fri, 01 Jan 2010 20:44:12 GMT Gen http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2280 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2280 I haven't posted in ages, but here I go. I have been sick with a sinus infecton for a while, and it finally has started to really bother me, so, I called in Thu, 31 Dec 2009 00:32:34 GMT Rhoda zzzzzz http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2279 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2279 Always the worst time of year. Back at the old homestead, tension fizzing, trying to stay buttoned-up and keep the peace. Held out until day after Xmas when I Thu, 17 Dec 2009 21:24:30 GMT Michele Cooper http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2278 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2278 Well Rhoda , if you feel that you should get an Attorney to see if they can assist you in this , because I tell you I am not putting up with no more of what Thu, 17 Dec 2009 19:32:36 GMT Michele Cooper http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2277 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2277 I wanted to respond back not only to hannah , but to those of you who are on this site . I am a middle age adult . I have 2 more years before I am officially Wed, 16 Dec 2009 22:25:13 GMT Rhoda zzzzzz http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2276 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2276 There's no "just" about it. It is violence and potentially quite dangerous. I was paddled right through my teens and it still occurs sometimes now. ... Wed, 16 Dec 2009 21:13:35 GMT Hannah http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2275 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2275 I guess I shouldn't use the word hit but it is being hit, even if it's "just" being slapped around. A child gets spanked, on the fanny, in a controlled manner Wed, 16 Dec 2009 17:40:39 GMT Rhoda zzzzzz http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2274 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2274 It's a relief of sorts to know I'm not unique.Hitting sounds very dangerous. I am just spanked in the classical fashion which is demeaning and painful but not Wed, 16 Dec 2009 13:20:38 GMT Hannah http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2273 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2273 My father hit me well into my 20s and only stopped when I put my hand up to him, about to hit him back if he tried it. It stopped. The problem is when I'm away Mon, 14 Dec 2009 20:08:43 GMT Rhoda zzzzzz http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2272 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2272 My family is totally overpowering too. I am ashamed to admit I am also spanked. ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Wed, 09 Dec 2009 03:00:12 GMT Hannah http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2271 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2271 Call the cops if she tries to whip you. ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Wed, 09 Dec 2009 02:41:00 GMT cmichele36 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2270 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2270 The reason why I wanted to join this group is because mine Mother has been controlling all of mine life . She is so overbearing that I can not stand to be Tue, 08 Dec 2009 13:35:41 GMT derby_girl_34 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2269 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ControllingParents/message/2269 That is how I feel too. That no matter what I do, it will never be good enough. The holidays are the worst though. Wanting and having to be around family. I