http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/ NCT E-Dad's Group Mon, 20 May 2013 17:29:59 GMT wonuowoade http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1488 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1488 Take on a challenge that will allow you to not only get fit but also raise money for charity! We are currently recruiting for the Great Run which includes two Mon, 13 May 2013 08:42:02 GMT Gary Mailer http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1487 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1487 Thanks All for the varied and (undoubtedly invaluable) feedback. What i've gleaned from this is "do what's right for the situation you are in". Hey ho here Tue, 07 May 2013 10:34:28 GMT e-mail stephen.crothers http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1486 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1486 Well, my DS is 9 yr old so can't say I hit the expectant father bit but I can share what we did... For the first few months baby slept in our bedroom, then I Tue, 07 May 2013 10:09:24 GMT Stephen http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1485 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1485 we sort of had this discussion early on, in so far as we looked at many aspects of attachment parenting and what the evidence demonstrated regarding outcomes. Tue, 07 May 2013 10:09:24 GMT benz_mk http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1484 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1484 Wow Martin. That was really interesting and helpful. If never even thought about that side of things. Thanks for that. This group is fantastic :) Ben Tue, 07 May 2013 10:09:23 GMT James Child http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1483 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1483 Things like this get debated in antenatal classes from all directions. I agree with all that has been said - my lad was with us until 6 months as my wife was Tue, 07 May 2013 10:09:23 GMT garymailer http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1482 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1482 Just wondered if any of you fellow expectant fathers have had hthe discussion with your partners around where the new arrival will sleep. There's one school of Tue, 07 May 2013 10:09:23 GMT Simon Funnell http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1481 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1481 Put them in a cot in your room for the first six months. Babies need to be close to their parents - and believe you me at 3am when you have to get up and feed Tue, 07 May 2013 10:09:23 GMT benz_mk http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1480 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1480 ah ok. Thanks for your comment. I think I will wait and see how we get on this Friday and go form there. Hopefully we will also get a fantastic 1st scan and Tue, 07 May 2013 10:09:23 GMT James Child http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1479 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1479 Mine slept in with us to 6 months happily, plus you're up and down anyway early doors so think how far away you'd be if the newborn is in another room! Tue, 07 May 2013 09:56:38 GMT benz_mk http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1478 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1478 Hi Gary, Interesting you say that, I am having the exact conversation with my girlfriend at the moment. She has stated that the baby will be in with us and Tue, 07 May 2013 09:37:45 GMT Martin Brant http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1477 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1477 Hi, I have two kids - Seth is 7 now and we started him off in his own room. It lasted about 3 days because he just wasn't happy. When he was in our room he Tue, 07 May 2013 09:36:15 GMT Robert Bagley http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1476 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1476 Apologies My spellcheck makes me sound educationally challenged. Regards Rob Tue, 07 May 2013 09:34:24 GMT Robert Bagley http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1475 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1475 Hi We had Lizzie in the bedroom with us for around three months. The food to size ratio for Lizzie meant that she slept through the night for about a month at Tue, 07 May 2013 09:21:43 GMT Wayne Hopkins http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1474 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/NCTEDads/message/1474 Hi Gary, My daughter Charlotte arrived 3 weeks ago. Me and my partner Sara decided to have Charlotte in our room but this is mainly because we have two older