http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/ BPDCarers Thu, 12 Feb 2009 16:11:02 GMT verap.scanlon http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/47 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/47 You cant diferentiate, its who they are. Have a "safe house". a place to escape to find your "me " time and Take it.my daughter has BPD as her mother i blamed Mon, 05 Jan 2009 17:35:57 GMT tb9164 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/46 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/46 Hi Sandra I still haven't managed to differenciate illness from person. I've just spent the last two years being angry at finding myself in this situation. Sun, 28 Dec 2008 17:21:22 GMT bty329555 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/45 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/45 Its a while since you wrote. Hope things have sorted out and your friend is in a safer state of mind about herself and you're all ok. My daughter has many Sun, 28 Dec 2008 09:21:25 GMT sandra.shaw@... http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/44 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/44 Dear Members, hello again. Another thing which puzzles me is, how do you differenciate the illness from the person? And do you? And if you don't, then how can Sun, 28 Dec 2008 00:47:13 GMT sandra.shaw@... http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/43 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/43 Dear Members, hello, and firstly I would like to say how happy I am to find this network. I was brought up by a mother with BPD, which I've only just realised Sun, 06 Jul 2008 22:13:54 GMT zarful71 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/42 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/42 ... convinced I'm only acting because I'm depressed and I'm being stupid and then the next I remember all the put downs, the narcissism and realise that I'm Sun, 06 Jul 2008 20:53:43 GMT T B http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/41 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/41 Hi Z Thank you for sounding concerned.  I feel awful - one minute convinced I'm only acting because I'm depressed and I'm being stupid and then the next I Sun, 06 Jul 2008 19:49:18 GMT zarful71 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/40 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/40 Hiya T How are you? I heard you dumped him. *Big Hugs* Z Thu, 17 Apr 2008 13:44:44 GMT kait.boorn http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/39 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/39 Hi everyone, My best friends going through a rough time at the moment, actually it has been building up for a while now, and I think it may be BDP or something Mon, 14 Apr 2008 22:47:29 GMT zarful71 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/38 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/38 Hi Jennifer I am really really sorry to hear that. How is she now? (((Big Hugs))) it must be terrible for you as well. Which medication has she been Sun, 13 Apr 2008 09:54:04 GMT jennifercornford http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/37 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/37 Hi there. My daughter hasn't started her CBT yet, wishful thinking by me. There is a waiting list to which she has been added. Meanwhile she has taken an Fri, 28 Mar 2008 09:51:53 GMT jennifercornford http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/36 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/36 Thank you. My daughter shows the symptems of self harm by excessive abuse of alcohol, cutting her arms and legs. Suicide attempts She does OTT spending and Tue, 25 Mar 2008 16:01:37 GMT zarful71 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/35 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/35 Hi Jennifer Welcome to the group. I'm really sorry to hear about your daughter, and it must be terrible to watch your child go through something like that. I Tue, 25 Mar 2008 11:43:20 GMT jennifercornford http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/34 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/34 Hello to all you other carers. Is there someone else who is caring for a daughter or son who has BPD? My daughter is 20 next month and was diagnosed with BPD Sat, 22 Mar 2008 16:26:59 GMT zarful71 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/33 http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/bpdcarers/message/33 Okay, you have to face the fact that you can never have an adult and equal relationship with hubby. He WILL show you up in company, he WILL try to get people