http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/ Calder Discussion List Thu, 26 Nov 2009 04:45:52 GMT DAVID CALDER http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/637 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/637 Happy Thanksgiving to all of you. Chunky and I will be spending the day eating our way through a 19 lb. Turkey that I won a few weeks ago (if I had been buying Wed, 25 Nov 2009 13:48:49 GMT javidfer http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/636 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/636 Yup - it's holiday time again! Hope you all get a day off, eat well, and have time with those close to you. I'm looking forward to a good day with all of us Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:35:05 GMT doris fernandez http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/635 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/635 Know these are difficult days, but am glad you realize some things take time.  You have already done so much and will do more as the days pass.  Always know Thu, 19 Nov 2009 14:57:55 GMT pencilpusher http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/634 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/634 Glad you are doing okay. Good to hear from you. I know going through things will take time but you are correct you are not on a time schedule. I know how you Thu, 19 Nov 2009 12:58:04 GMT npjj@... http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/633 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/633 Just briefly letting everyone know that we are doing OK since our loss of Neil. His empty recliner reminds me every night that he is no longer with us and I Sun, 08 Nov 2009 04:33:52 GMT pencilpusher http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/632 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/632 We made it home at about 7 PM. Ate, put things away and now watching news and catching up on emails,etc. Had a nice surprise when we got home. Our grandson, Tue, 03 Nov 2009 06:04:08 GMT npjj@... http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/631 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/631 Of course, I left out important info in my earlier email: If you knew Neil, you knew he hated a suit and tie ... so if you would like to dress casual ... he Tue, 03 Nov 2009 06:03:07 GMT Lauren Simpson http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/630 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/630 Maybe someone could pass this along to Phylis and their children.We also send this to the parents of children who have passed away to let them know what they Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:57:47 GMT Lauren Simpson http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/629 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/629 I hope this is ok to post.  I send this to family members when their child has died . I think the information  may be helpful Do's and Don'ts of Grief DO Tue, 03 Nov 2009 01:21:10 GMT DAVID CALDER http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/628 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/628 As an inlaw, and one who doesn't have much family of my own, I'm grateful to the Calders for how welcome I've always been made to feel, and I love all of you! Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:07:36 GMT npjj@... http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/627 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/627 Monday, Nov. 2, 4:30 p.m. Where has the day gone??? I am so sorry to just now be getting this email out to everyone concerning services for Neil. We just Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:05:03 GMT Kitty Calder http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/626 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/626 Neil and Family, You are in my prayers and on the prayer chain here. May God's peace be with you during this time. Kitty (Patrick's Mom) Mon, 02 Nov 2009 12:28:08 GMT javidfer http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/625 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/625 Today is a day to be thankful for all this Calder family. With so much to say, I only will say, thank you for being. I am thankful for special Calder's - Mon, 02 Nov 2009 03:51:25 GMT jay http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/624 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/624 Hello from Wisconsin, Just got off the phone with mom and wanted to send my thoughts and prayers. you all are in my heart and that 1700 miles away I am Sun, 01 Nov 2009 05:45:48 GMT pencilpusher http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/623 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calder_talk/message/623 Phyllis, Jaree, Jarron and Rachel, Know we are there with you in spirit. My heart goes out to you all. I know this is hard on you all. I will do anything I