http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/ Single Moms Raising Sons Wed, 23 Sep 2009 11:05:38 GMT roxannemedley http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/70 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/70 I am the grandmother in this case, but trying to save my daughter from losing her mind. The father left the scene last year, leaving 2 boys ages 12 and 14. He Wed, 20 May 2009 03:08:45 GMT justicc4all http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/69 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/69 I left my husband a year ago and since then he has been on a mission to destroy and demonize me to our children...even our grown daughter! but more Mon, 22 Dec 2008 05:50:57 GMT Kandy http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/68 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/68 I just wanted to say hello to everyone and introduce myself. My name is Kandy, I'm 24 and I have a 2 year old son named Raistlin. His father left when I was 8 Sun, 26 Oct 2008 13:21:35 GMT Corinne http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/67 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/67 Did you recently start dating again? Just wondering if that might have something to do with his feelings/behavior and stuff. Just wondering.... My hunch is to Sat, 25 Oct 2008 14:38:04 GMT johnnyguinness22 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/66 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/66 My son is 11 years old and still loves to cuddle with me. Lately my boyfriend has told me he found this weird. Also, my son has started to want to cuddle with Fri, 22 Aug 2008 12:20:18 GMT Corinne http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/65 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/65 I am sipping my early morning coffee in a brief moment of quiet before getting the boys up and read your reply. I am so happy that it helped to read it!  I Thu, 21 Aug 2008 17:47:10 GMT michele.leiberman http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/64 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/64 Thank you so much for that answer. YOu made my load a lot lighter today and your response actually brought some happy tears to my eyes. Michele ... personal to Thu, 21 Aug 2008 13:58:40 GMT Corinne http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/63 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/63 I know this sounds really clique, but I really think it is so personal to whom you meet and how you feel. It's really no one's decision but yours. Personally, Wed, 20 Aug 2008 15:56:23 GMT Corinne http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/62 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/62 I think I would say let yourself learn and be in the present moment. I have tried to keep myself in the 'now' and learn from my mistakes well rather than be Wed, 20 Aug 2008 11:47:45 GMT michele leiberman http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/61 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/61 I'm a single mom of a 14 month old boy. I separated from my husband in January, when I found out he was cheating on me, and my son at the time was 8 months Tue, 19 Aug 2008 20:08:27 GMT KRISTY MANNING http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/60 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/60 I think at some point most moms feel like that.  I often wonder if the choices I make for myself are good choices for him.  My son is 9 & we have an Tue, 19 Aug 2008 19:28:26 GMT hippiechild75080 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/59 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/59 I love this answer!! I spend a lot of time worrying about whether my choices are the best for him in the long run - - because I'm not a man and I don't always Tue, 19 Aug 2008 18:51:12 GMT Tania http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/58 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/58 One more please... Does anyone know of a website for children of divorce? I am referring to a safe, secure website that kids can consult or browse - not a Tue, 19 Aug 2008 18:31:40 GMT Tania http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/57 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/57 Good afternoon, Thank you Martin for your wonderful site and to everyone who contributes. It makes the ocean that I'm rowing my little boat in, seem a little Tue, 19 Aug 2008 18:31:37 GMT KRISTY MANNING http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/56 http://groups.yahoo.com/group/momsraisingsons/message/56 Never degrade men in you son's presence.  No matter what experiences you may have had in the past with men never let your son hear you saying anything bad