http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/ The art of persuasive communication. Sat, 18 Apr 2009 20:19:45 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/18 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/18 Well first of all what is something that you would like to make different? It always works so much better when we can set out a definitive path. Change can be Fri, 17 Apr 2009 18:18:41 GMT vbelyanin http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/17 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/17 ... for me it isthe other way. very hard to change but long to take. how do you make changes fast? Wed, 23 Jul 2008 18:20:31 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/16 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/16 Ok. Lets start from the beginning here with anchoring. Basically anchoring is pairing a sound, touch, taste, smell, visual input with a state of mind that Wed, 23 Jul 2008 18:05:21 GMT Reba Osborne http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/15 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/15 Who is your audience here? Possibly, go into more details about anchors and how to set them (specific examples) may be useful. _____ From: Tue, 22 Jul 2008 20:56:42 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/14 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/14 I bit has been written and taught by others about stealing anchors. That would be the process of "stealing" the feelings that someone has towards someone else Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:21:56 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/13 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/13 Changing what into what would be the first question. You should know where you are going. Is change really that hard? The things I have changed about myself Mon, 14 Jul 2008 19:14:59 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/12 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/12 When I am open my mouth what is my intended purpose? What am I trying to convey with my communication? To me, when you spend time refining your communication Mon, 17 Dec 2007 20:16:47 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/11 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/11 I remember when I was first learning how to utilize these techniques we are discussing. My question was, "What do you put in?" Here it is. Most often the the Tue, 04 Dec 2007 21:12:35 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/10 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/10 ... Hey Carl, a few more notes here on the swish. Now when I am talking about the feeling of familiar, I am talking about your house, car, neighborhood, bro, Thu, 29 Nov 2007 18:37:07 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/9 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/9 I am confident that I might puke, if I see another nlp website that promotes confidence. Confident in what? Whos confiding what to whom? What in the fuck does Tue, 27 Nov 2007 23:18:12 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/8 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/8 Another reason for disociation in the second visual of the swish pattern. If you were associated in the second visual, the only thing you would be seeing is Tue, 27 Nov 2007 16:06:58 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/7 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/7 I want to comment on one more thing here Carl. You are talking about this new state wearing off like it is a drug or a thing. I think that you find it more Tue, 27 Nov 2007 12:03:39 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/6 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/6 Do you know what rapport is? I am not talking about conscious rapport. You know the kind where the sales books say look for like a bowling trophy or something Tue, 27 Nov 2007 03:55:51 GMT messbanger http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/5 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/5 ... really well. First of all you ... yourself doing whatever it is ... youre wanting to posess. ... resources so that you will ... add to it the ... From here Sat, 24 Nov 2007 20:55:28 GMT Vince Black http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/4 http://tech.groups.yahoo.com/group/persuasivecommunication/message/4 Hey Carl. Just a couple of other things that will help you do this really well. First of all you do not want to associate into the new image. You want to see