http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/ POSitive Partners of Survivors - Support Partners/Understand the Sexually Abused Fri, 19 Jun 2009 17:17:11 GMT sweetsmile_0028 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14367 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14367 My husband and I have been married for 9 1/2years. I know that as a child he was sexually abused my members in his church. When we first started dating he was Tue, 16 Jun 2009 15:08:46 GMT danielsherenow http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14366 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14366 Interesting, Patricia, Turns out my CSA survivor wife is reading the same book, got it from a group she's in, must be making the rounds. She told me that in Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:13:25 GMT hbeegannon@... http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14365 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14365 Hi, my name is Joanna. I am in a relationship with an incest survivor. I too am a child sex abuse survivor. We have been together for 11 months today and Sun, 07 Jun 2009 14:54:24 GMT Alisa Balterman http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14364 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14364 I'm sorry Dawn to hear that. I think I would like to hear about how some of these couples work out - but I think, at least on this list, it is rare. I had a Sun, 07 Jun 2009 13:42:12 GMT Dawn http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14363 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14363 Thanks for the suggestion. Sadly, it seems I've joined again and probably don't need to be here. Not right now anyway. I found out yesterday that she is dating Thu, 04 Jun 2009 04:03:17 GMT Patricia http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14362 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14362 Hi Dawn - Welcome back. I think I remember you. I'm sorry your ex-relationship is still so complicated. Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could just turn-off Sun, 31 May 2009 04:10:14 GMT Dawn http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14361 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14361 I joined this group briefly in July/August of 2008. I left when my partner and I split up and it looked like she wasn't coming back. Well, she's back in my Sat, 25 Apr 2009 18:32:40 GMT simonshek_2000 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14359 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14359 What you describe in many ways are very classic symptoms other partners here have had to deal with; yet one could also say a lot of people and relationships go Tue, 21 Apr 2009 23:28:07 GMT Erika http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14358 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14358 Hello, I am brand new to this group, but I am searching for someone who can help me understand what me and my partner are going through. We are both women in Fri, 17 Apr 2009 19:56:54 GMT simonshek_2000 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14357 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14357 Hello I am sorry about your situation. Your friend's strong reaction /trigger may indicate a good time to seek some professional counselling, even if it is Fri, 17 Apr 2009 03:56:24 GMT painmgt@... http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14356 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14356 I am so sorry for you and him. but I will only speak to you. I would first suggest that you get a cople of good books and read up quickly. There are a number Fri, 17 Apr 2009 03:39:40 GMT painmgt@... http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14355 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14355 My brother, you have come a long way to focus on yourself and get your mind right about who you are. I too, figured out how to eat right and lost 40 lbs in the Thu, 16 Apr 2009 04:32:37 GMT painmgt@... http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14354 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14354 Well I am new to the forum too, but not to CSA. 22 years of marriage and several kids later, I am staring divorce in the face. My choice not hers. I will give Tue, 14 Apr 2009 02:51:42 GMT desbabestr http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14352 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14352 my boyfriend told me in the beginning of our relationship that he had been raped as a child when he attended summer camp. At the time I really thought that he Mon, 09 Mar 2009 13:58:48 GMT s_has http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14350 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14350 Phil, Sadly I haven't even found one for myself. I will tell you an excellent book (and at the end they have some contacts for support groups). The book is