http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/ POSitive Partners of Survivors - Support Partners/Understand the Sexually Abused Wed, 02 Jul 2008 02:10:32 GMT Becca Vining http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14198 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14198 I have to applaud you on the support you have given her, i know it's got to be hard on you. i know now i'm on the wrong group site but it's nice to see Tue, 01 Jul 2008 22:10:14 GMT fides73 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14197 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14197 So sorry for your pain, and I hope you can find some consolation in the empathy from those of us in similar predicaments. You seem to know that after having Sat, 28 Jun 2008 06:17:52 GMT Tim http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14196 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14196 well I know many of you on here try to stay positive and continue to fight for a relationship that probably will always be filled with anger and mistrust. My Sat, 28 Jun 2008 05:56:24 GMT fides73 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14195 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14195 Daniel, I appreciate your insight and empathy. While the worst is to feel helpless in spite of my efforts, you remind me and I take consolation in knowing I am Sat, 28 Jun 2008 01:53:58 GMT danielsherenow http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14194 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14194 ... before ... cousin ... I'm ... to ... of ... who ... I think it's safe to assume that it's for the best. In any event, you don't really have much choice. Fri, 27 Jun 2008 22:47:38 GMT helpmehelphernow http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14193 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14193 my wife of almost 4 years is a survivor.........she recently experienced a traumatic setback that opened the flood gates to the abuse she suffered......i was Fri, 27 Jun 2008 02:47:51 GMT fides73 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14192 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14192 Hi. I'm wondering if anyone has some insight on how I can cope with the following: My boyfriend, a survivor, recently broke up with me unexpectedly. In sum, he Fri, 27 Jun 2008 01:27:37 GMT becca.vining http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14191 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14191 ... age of 5 to the age of 19. I know what your son is going through the hurt and guilt he feels. I told my family after the birth of my daughter almost a year Fri, 27 Jun 2008 01:19:44 GMT yanckowitzk http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14190 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14190 My son - 30 yrs old - told me 2 yrs ago his father sexually molested him from approx age 5 thru 13. He has gone to states attorney and police and has written Thu, 26 Jun 2008 00:27:52 GMT danielsherenow http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14189 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14189 Your post is the kind of thing that we all tell ourselves when a relationship ends, but can't quite believe will ever happen. I mean a relationship that you Mon, 23 Jun 2008 21:09:25 GMT tryingtohelp2 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14188 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14188 Hope I'm not too much of a Prodigal daughter. I needed some distance and time away from the partner stuff for a while. Not having a survivor-partner anymore Mon, 23 Jun 2008 20:55:00 GMT tryingtohelp2 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14187 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14187 Mlektex, I will email this to you directly, too. I just checked this site after being gone a long time and it looks like no one's replied to you yet. You Sat, 21 Jun 2008 12:27:14 GMT tigersauto http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14185 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14185 I agree with smoothpebble...this is sound advice for any person in a relationship that is ending for any reason. think about it,reflect on it, remember what Sat, 21 Jun 2008 11:10:07 GMT zilla5x5 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14183 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14183 Sat, 21 Jun 2008 03:54:08 GMT smoothpebble69 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14182 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/positivepartnersofsurvivors/message/14182 I think Ed said it best, if you are getting out of the situation, reflect on what it is that you have been getting from that relationship, or you will go out