http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/ Womans Emotional Abuse Support - You are not alone. Let us help eachother. Wed, 10 Feb 2010 02:46:46 GMT Marilyn http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39266 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39266 I would like to think of my ex as a friend. He's not. He's manipulative and makes me crazy to talk to. The good: My daughter passed her kidney stone Sat. morn. Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:57:43 GMT idel_e http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39265 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39265 I know, why is that? Maybe they think that we will always be a listening ear...I have tried to think of him as friend. Coz i kept telling him that he treats Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:57:21 GMT idel_e http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39264 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39264 I know, why is that? Maybe they think that we will always be a listening ear...I have tried to think of him as friend. Coz i kept telling him that he treats Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:56:21 GMT idel_e http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39263 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39263 I know, why is that? Maybe they think that we will always be a listening ear...I have tried to think of him as friend. Coz i kept telling him that he treats Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:59:20 GMT GayLynn http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39262 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39262 My ex has been talking to me more too. I think he is feeling restricted with her being married still & seems not thrilled with the arrangement. With all the Mon, 08 Feb 2010 12:03:44 GMT Marilyn http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39261 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39261 If he got to claim your son last year why is he giving you a hard time about claiming him this year? Bringing the IRS into this is so stupid. My ex doesn't Mon, 08 Feb 2010 12:00:06 GMT Marilyn http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39260 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39260 If you're entitled to claim him then do so. You paid and now it's time for you to get back a part of that. How long does this go on?????? Until they get tired. Mon, 08 Feb 2010 05:05:15 GMT idel_e http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39259 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39259 Hi Gaylynn, True, true, I agree with you so much. It's always a constant struggle not to go back to him. :) But when I start remembembering what happened in Mon, 08 Feb 2010 03:15:39 GMT teresa http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39258 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39258 Thanks Cindy for the reaffirmation.   It gets so trying...he picks and chooses.... and I follow rulings to the letter, and still am harassed..   Oh well.. I Sun, 07 Feb 2010 23:00:55 GMT GayLynn http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39257 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39257 It helps me to keep reading the posts! I read & reread & reread what I replied. I have been seperated from my ex for 1 year now, divorced for 4 months. We are Sun, 07 Feb 2010 22:10:14 GMT Cindy G http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39256 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39256 Terrianne.. I have to follow the decree to the letter, while he picks and chooses what he will or won't do...It's not worth my time or my energy to fight him Sun, 07 Feb 2010 20:21:52 GMT terrianne2003 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39255 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39255 Well, its been quiet for almost a year. I've pissed him off.. The ex just called., if I had recognised the number I'd never answer it. He starts in with " This Sun, 07 Feb 2010 15:30:38 GMT Rev. Morgana RedSkye Black http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39254 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39254 This morning's message comes from Thoughts From The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav page 76 "Do not lose power over the what-ifs of your life. These are Sun, 07 Feb 2010 15:05:51 GMT charvmann2 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39253 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39253 ... i agree. i am worried about you too Sun, 07 Feb 2010 13:48:26 GMT Marilyn http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39252 http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/womansemotionalabusesupport/message/39252 Where are you?